Confuse
I was always told to be patient and humble , to love God and respect my parents , to live a good life and help others . I was thought how to be good and understand others. I had good people around me .
I learned that not everyone is the same and each individual is unique. I found out that there are those who pretend to be good but are actually mean and bad. I made my own conclusions as my life went on . I am still learning how to read people’s actions and feelings.
I can’t say I am perfect or a good human for I too have a lot to learn. However I am in a Dilemma about how good or kind one should be ? to what extent one can stretch kindness and love.
My parents told me that if I live a good life I will have a good future . I am not complaining for I have a lot to be thankful for. But there are little things in life that i still can’t get right nor understand fully………..
Like forgiving and forgetting. My grandma said that we can always forgive but if we can not forget then that it is not forgiving at all. So the hardest thing is to forget not the forgiving itself.
I find it easy to forgive people that hurts me ( ME only ) But i find it really hard to forgive the people who hurts my love ones specially my babies . I have forgiven many for I see my children forgetting so i do the same but till when till how much………How much is being kind and how much is being abuse and stupid?????????????
Personally I don’t hate anybody at the moment but I recent a few still….. Does that make me a bad person? what if i forget and I always forgive will that make me a fool ?…….. People say if u r good u place the other cheek but how many times can u do that ? before u r called a fool ????
There r couples that I know go through a lot during their lives. Some cheat others and some just take it and pretend nothing happened . One can only stand so much before we break so is that good or stupid??????????
Is it being GOOD so GOOD a good thing or not??
How far should we let it go before we fight back ??
Shall we just forgive ????
or shall we forget instead????
life is a difficult ……………………………………………
